The road to happiness in love is rocky.  But what guides lovers along the way is signals.  The problem with most girls is that they don't send clear lights.  Guys confused the orange with the red light or the green with the orange light.

How to get a guy to like you

You like him, he doesn't like you.  Your whole life becomes a massive, intense decoding operation.  How do you win that elusive guy by using an innocent gestures drips with hidden meanings?  A relationship expert shares a secret of chasing and winning that elusive guy:

• Be friendly.  Act like a friend.  If you think he's in trouble, ask him what the matter is and if he doesn't reply, it's enough that you asked.
• Greet him.  Know his birthday.  On his birthday and any special occasion he celebrates, don't forget to greet him.
• Ask a favor.  Ask him to do a favor for you.  If he's brainy, ask him to help you with your school project or office presentation.  Ask him about his ideas and comments then praise him casually, then give him your most professional smile to confused him.  He will then think of you whether you are flirting or whether he's just being appreciated.
• Borrow a book.  Winning that elusive guy is to let him know that you use the same things that he fondly cherishes like his favorite book and his good DVD.
• Casually ask about his life.  Knowledge  is power.  Know his soft spots or his biggest interest, for that matter.  You'll know the easiest way to his heart as soon as you get to know him better.
• Song sing sing sing.  Sing him a song. This is if you've got the voice.  Otherwise, you'll just forever turn him off.  You can do it in a videoke or casually while listening to his car stereo.
• Fun stories to tell.  Tell him funny stories.  Tell him about the blouse that you burnt while ironing; tell him you tripped your ways down to the coffee shop.  Show him how comfortable you are in his presence.  Even if his mere gaze sends you to the clouds.  Remember, if you really want him, it's okey to reach out and try to find all your way to his heart.  But don't forget the limitations.  Save yourself from the agony of having to forget shameful things you've done just for him says a psychologist.
• Invite him.  Invite him out to social gatherings with the rest of your friends.  Tell him that your friends want to meet new friends in case he ask you why you're bringing him.
• Show guy you like him. It makes people feel good to be paid attention to, and guys like it when you flirt a little.  According to a book author, smiling and saying hello to the guy you like whenever you see him will leave a positive impression of you in his mind.
• Give him your calling card or give him your business card.  When you say you're have to go means you are in a hurry because you don't want to risk going home alone.  You can make him understand that you really like him by giving him your business card or calling card as you excuse yourself.  That way you're casually saying that you'll be available to talk to him longer the next time around.

Try not to take it personally when a guy doesn't like you.  Attraction between guy and a girl is a funny thing that doesn't happen that often.  If the guy you like won't like you back you just have to keep looking until you find someone who does.

What is the purpose of life

According to love experts, trust in the wonderful way life works.  The universe will lead you to the right person.  In fact, it will probably happen when you are least expecting it, so don't worry too much.

Enjoy the freedom that you have right now.  When you find the right guy, you'll have to make lots of compromises and take his feelings into account.  While you have it enjoy your freedom.  A loving, commited relationship is wonderful but not something to be rushed into.

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Source:

           Cabrera, Tracy, "Love Bites."  Women's Journal 1 July 06