How do you prove your love for someone?  Giving up a flourishing career?  Would it go as far as risking your own life?  Or defying your family's will, like what Romeo and Juliet did.  Not all people would agree that the heart should rule over the mind.  There are many who hold the view that love comes just once in a lifetime, hence those who find it should not let go of it once it comes.  And once you have it, you should hold on to it, right?

Most successful relationships involve the characters going through a tremendous obstacle to actually be able to be together.  Overcoming those obstacles teach both of you how to value the relationship and each other are.  Think about how you would feel or what you would do if for some reason you would never see your partner again after today.  Make an effort to show your boyfriend how much you value him. 

If you want your man to keep him loving you an author of Little Things Count in Relationship, and another author of How to Have a Fairy-tale Romance value suggestions to keep him to love you:

• Appreciate him.  Appreciation takes a thousand forms.  It can be a casual compliment.  There's no doubt about it, appreciation in any form at any time, brightens anyone's existence.  And like a beam of sunlight striking a mirror, the brightness is reflected back to you.
• Hold hands.  The fact that you're telling the world the two of you are together can give an extra boost to your relationship.  Holding hands in public already means a lot.
•  Appreciate his looks. Show your boyfriend and tell him that you love to look at it and appreciate his hair, eyes, lips, and neck, etc.  It will also give your relationship an added boost.  Pay your boyfriend a compliment.  Telling your honey you love his new hair cut or his new polo shirt implies that you notice the little changes he makes to look good.
• Never criticized your boyfriend.  Romance would never take place if a character in a romance overly criticized or tried to change the other character.  No one wants to be reprimanded of his fault or shortcomings. The next time you feel the urge to say something that isn't positive towards your boyfriend, hold yourself, accept him for who he is completely. 
• Defend your boyfriend. Just imagine how you would feel if you witnessed your boyfriend defending you or speaking highly of you to someone else.  Make it a point to be there for your boyfriend when he needs it most and show how much you respect him.
• Admit your fault.  Asking for forgiveness and admitting one's fault is not easy.  A person who do that is one who is true to oneself.
• Don't do anything to cause a lack of affection from your boyfriend.  Your boyfriend can only love you as much as you give reason for him to love you.  Not all relationships have a happy ending.  When they don't, it's almost always because one of the characters did something to make the other fallout of love with them.  Don't jeopardize your relationship by doing something you know will cause him lose his trust, faith and love for you.
• Invite your boyfriend out with your friends.  Inviting your boyfriend to a night out with your friend will mean a lot.
• Relationship priority.  Never allow outside sources to influence your relationship.  One of the largest causes of strife in a relationship are outside influences.  Take a look at your relationship now.  Is there anything you both frequently argue about?  Chances are it's been caused by an outside influence.  The next time you feel the need to criticize judge or argue make sure it's actually something that originated from you.  If someone tell you something about your boyfriend, first check the validity of the source and then confront your boyfriend in an adult manner.  Don't first assume what that person said to you was true.  This is the last step to keep him to love you.

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Source:

Gerardo, JL. "12 Steps to Keep Him Loving You."  MOD Magazine 8 Feb 2003