"He loves me, he loves me not"

"Words can lie, but action don't. As the old saying goes, 'Actions speak louder than words.' In your current love affair, are there signs that your boyfriend may be hiding something?  Does he act in some way that raise more questions than explanations? 

This could indicate more problems in your relationship that you or him are hesitant to face up to know some tips on how do you know he loves you shared from a renowned author.

How do you know he loves you

• He doesn't talk about his past.  Does he make fun of serious matters about himself?  Does he shift to other issues when talks begin to revolve around him, his life, his past, his previous relationship?  But if you have a strong suspicion, discreetly do your own investigative work.
• Possessive and jealous.  If he is overly attentive and calls ten times a day to keep in touch and to know where you're going; chances are, the guy is possessive and jealous to the point of suffocating you.  According to a famous song, "Too much love can kill you."  That's what crimes of passion are all about.
•  Boyfriend is an alcoholic.  He's into substance abuse.  If your boyfriend is addicted to alcohol, drugs, gambling and women, convinced him to enter a rehabilitation center.  If he declines, and he doesn't want to fight his addiction then you should end the relationship says a psychologist.  Furthermore, the psychologist revealed that say goodbye now because the love of a good woman cannot cure an addiction.  In real life, you cannot change him, no one else but him.
• He talks a lot about his family.  He always defend them and he doesn't seem to see any fault in them.  You may feel like an outsider later on.  If his family does not vote at you  with favor, his extreme attachment to his family means he won't defend you against them." (Abera, 02)

"Signs that he is into you:

1.  He always treat you with respect.  He's considerate.  He's very conscious of not saying or doing anything that might make you uncomfortable and he always takes your feeling into account.

2.  He's interested in your life.  He always ask you questions about what's up with you.  he is not only your romantic partner, but he's also your friend.

3.  He's proud that others know he's yours.  According to a professor of marriage and family therapy, guys in love enjoy showing off their girlfriend.  They can't wait to introduce her to people, are proud to be seen with her and more significantly take her home to meet their family.

4.  He doesn't go out with girls.  One of the easiest ways to tell that his heart is yours is if he stops dating around and makes your relationship exclusive.  In short for him love means commitment says a guidance counselor.

5.  He will work it out.  Love doesn't mean the two of you will always be lying down on a bed of roses.  But it does mean that when you do disagree, he has the determination to work things out because you mean everything to him.

6.  Hang on you.  He spends quality time with you.  If he cares, he'll work to find common ground so that both of you will have much time to spend together.  To him both of you can have a good time just hanging out like watching TV or hearing sweet romantic music, the important thing is for him  both of you are together.

7.  He doesn't push you to have sex.  If you decide you aren't ready to surrender yourself to him body and soul, he will respect your decision and stick with you.  And if you finally do decide to launch a sexual relationship with him, he doesn't treat you like dirt or ignore you the next day.  He'll let you know that it was special for him, too." (Source: "Sincere or a Sleaze?" Woman home companion 94)

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Sources:

              Abrera, Beth, "Listen to What He Says." 24 July 02

              Anonymous, "Sincere or a Sleaze" 16 Feb. 84