According to experts, realize that  looks may be more important to you than you know.  When it comes to courting, numerous studies have shown that both men and women rank attractiveness first.  Some studies assumed that only couples who have similar personalities and values would continue to see each other after the dance.  Men and women alike tried to move on to second meeting when the partner was good looking to him or her.

A psychiatrist says, "I am more worried about the woman who marries only for sexual chemistry than about the woman who settles for a man who loves more than desires".  According to findings, sexuality diminishes somewhat overtime but committing yourself to a relationship in which sex is of lesser importance won't help.  So what do you do when you meet a great guy?  You love being with him but you don't feel in love.

According to experts there are several steps to take.  They suggest asking yourself the following questions:

• Am I looking for a commitment?
• Do I have the energy and time to spend on a relationship?
• What do I think of men in general?

If you come up with a green light on the three questions, then you may want to consider your type.

What attracts man to a woman

According to a researcher, you will notice that what's considered sexy in a man changes through the years.  In the 1950s, went for men who had sharp, clean crew cuts; in the 60s, girls found they were excited by boys sporting thick, wild hair.  The latter part of the 90s is being besieged by the semi-bald look most men enjoy sporting.  In the 20s, it a combination or both. 

Personal preference runs the gamut.  Whatever our individual taste differences in men, there are three main principle that can influence women's preferences according to research:

• Exposure.  A man's look will grow as you see him more often whether on a date or simply at the office.  In one study, researchers asked subjects to judge a photographs of complete strangers on attractiveness.  Both men and women judged a familiar face to be much better-looking face.
• Share value.  Share value is the second major principle of physical attraction.  It means you want men who agree with your values than men who do not.  According to a doctor report, there is a series of studies showing that if you're left-wing, you'll find a man more attractive if he is left-wing too.  It's not just that you'll tend to like him more appealing physically as well.  A man who shared your major life values will simply seem better looking than a man who does not added the report.
• Social Equality.  According to the third principle, people are drawn to their equals.  You choose people with whom you think you fit- and you think will also choose them.  In other words, you try to aim neither too high nor too low.  In terms of looks, a woman is of average attractiveness, when will fall for a man of average attractiveness too. How do you account for the visual mismatch?  You know at least one high school friend, short overweight, married a tall, dark, professional.  Very likely your friend has something to offer; her other qualities may be compensating for what she lacks in looks which her partner is looking for.

Fantasy life

If you daydream about dark, bearded types while you're going out with a brown-haired man, you're working against yourself.  Practice the principles of learning theory.  Mind over chemistry says a psychiatrist.  Try casting your present companion in your wildest fantasies.  This tactic, repeated frequently, should start building association between pleasure and the man you're dating.

If you think he's quite boring, give him a second chance.  First impressions don't always count.  Test him against added a psychologist.

But if you really given this man a chance and you just don't fancy him, then it may be time to set him free.  And if the story can't have a happy ending, it's time to look for a new  beginning.

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Resource: 

Balatero De Leon, Rachel, " First Impression Maybe Wrong Afterall (So Why not take a second look?")