Reasons Why Some Women Choose to Be With Older Men
EducationReasons Why Some Women Choose to Be With Older Men
Have you ever wonder why a woman in her early twenties falls for a man ten years her senior, or even older, as in, he could be her father, or even her grandfather? Marrying a sixty-year-old man when the woman is barely thirty would mean spending less years with him. When he dies, the young girl turned rich widow is free again. But practically is not always the reason for liking or loving an older man according to a renowned author.
Studies show that there are other reasons why some woman choose to be with older men:
- His maturity ensures a stable relationship. According to a renowned author, an older guy has probably had many relationships so it's natural to think that he already knows how to avoid the pitfalls in a relationship and how to make it lasts. At this age, though, he is bound to be holdings a more responsible position which makes him busier than a much younger man. Still, he is generally secure enough to allow his younger partner to grow as a person. He knows that one secrets to a lasting relationship is giving it his best keep it going and growing.
- He is a father figure. A girl also looks for a guy who's very much like her dad; just like a guy who looks for someone like his mom. And that isn't bad at all, especially since it is only natural for a girl to admire her father. Some women need somebody to look after her, much like her doting dad, or older male relative did.
He is a father figure
- He knows how to make her feel loved. He is thoughtful, and has the means to show it with gifts that need not be expensive but always tasteful.
- He is considerate. When a girl is very much involved in her career or field, he will understand her need because he's been through the same phase before.
- He is committed. With an older guy, settling down may no longer be a problem since he's stable financially and emotionally, and has found the commitment to make the relationship work.
- He can teach her more about life. His age may not incline him to pursue the more active things inline, like sports, even sex, but he can be a most effective intellectual guru.
- He gives her financial stability. The girl feels more financially secure, with older man. He need not be filthy rich, so long as he has a ready income to support their life together in modest comfort says a famous researcher
He is financially stable
- Older men generally look more distinguished. The air of authority, lends a distinctive look to an older man. He commands respect and you, as his wife, shares the honor that is given him.
- You will be his last love. True, you may not be his first love, but you will be his last love, cited an author. After having had so many women in the past, he has chosen you to share his life in the present and in the future. You stand to be his one and only.
After all, age does not have to matter in this day. Next time you hear about a May-December affair, don't scoff or laugh.
Resource:
Astudillo, Ma. Sonia. "The Lure of Older Men." Woman Today 23 Feb. 00