According to a renowned author, sometimes the man you treasure in your life is the very same man who makes you cry. No matter how you love him and give him a very big portion of your heart, he can hurt you so bad when he break up. While it could be the man's fault at times, there may be other times when it is your own doing that's making you cry. You may not be literally crying but, deep inside, your hurting like hell.

Furthermore the author commented that the man referred to here, need not necessarily be your boyfriend or lover, but any man you have loved or still loved, friend or any man, at one time or another, will have a special place in your heart.

With these helpful hints, shed no more tears you'll survive with the break up says a famous psychologist.

He isn't all that perfect. You look up to him with so much adoration. You idolize his ways and you admire him; but when you discover that he isn't all that perfect, you get disappointed. When problems start getting in the ways of your relationship, you get mad at him, you start hating this man as well as the relationship. Remember this: Forget about your idea of a perfect man- no such animal exists says a psychologist. Perfection is an ideal that will remain just that- an ideal. Afterall, you too, are far from perfect.

He expect too much from you. Sometimes it could be your fault, sometimes it could be his. Next time you cry over a man- be he your brother, boyfriend or husband, don't take the blame. Analyze the situation, then do what you have to do. Do your part, let him do his too. If you think that a peaceful discussion is pointless because neither of you wants to listen or concede liability, terminate the argument and set aside another time to discuss the problem later when you have calmed down. Who knows? May be tomorrow everything might just turn out, if not for the better, then for the best.

You expect him to love you as you love him. According to a renowned author, of course, he loves you though at times you may not feel it. Perhaps he didn't notice your new hair cut, and you think that he doesn't love you enough. You then start thinking that he loves you less. Remember don't always expect him to love you in the same quantity and quality of love that you give him. The way he loves you will not always measures up to the way you love him for every person differs says a psychologist.

You do everything for him. You take care of him. When he disagrees, you get hurt and think that he fails to appreciate the things you do for him. Remember this: Sometimes your man may want some breathing space or has other things to do with other people. Your life is your own. Even when you marry, you and your husband should remain as two separate souls but going in the same direction says an expert. According to Love Quotes, "Love works in magical ways but never be fooled by the promise of forever. There will come a time when the spark will die and when that times comes, we must learn to let go no matter how painful."

Take life less seriously...

Resource: Woman Today

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