One of the reasons why matchmaking will never go out of business, although it might evolve, is the fact that not all have a match. The old fashion idea that there is a true love for all, is not so true.

Yes, in the old days people might have believed those things and remaining single could have been not socially accepted. Most couples were matched and married, not knowing any better, whether it were in the good or the bad days.

But modern people, especially women, have become more demanding and also making their own career. The days of the stay-at-home mothers are not fully gone, but our more costly and demanding society gives us more working women.

Also are there more singles and broken relationships. Modern generations do not have their parents making matches for them. They just have to find a partner themselves and not all manage to find and to keep one.

That is why the match making bureaus are becoming online dating sites, but are still active and making money. In rare cases they deliver a happy couple, but in many cases, they just make a lot of money on the ones feeling helpless and lonely.

It might be less of a taboo to be single, but it does not mean that it is less frustrating when you cannot find your match.

Men might be a little less struggling, but for women, it might be hard to see that they are a certain age, have an array of lost hopes and dreams and their prince charming is not there.

The simple fact is: there might be just no prince charming for some of us. Yes, you may love a man. Yes, he can be nice and funny, but he might be already taken and/or not interested in you.

Maybe you just have to face the fact that you dated a loser and your friends might have been luckier, getting the great guy and married him. You can remain jealous at her, or face the fact her life might also not be perfect as well. She might struggle with her health, or her husband's or her kids. She might not be single, but she does have other worries.

Now men are less committing and might easier move on after their partner walks out on them, or if they walk out on their partner, but women easier suffer years from a broken heart, when they get rejected or dumped by who they claimed right.

But keep in mind: nobody deserves to be a struggling single, but also nobody deserves to feel desperate. When you are desperate, you are more vulnerable and might end up in bad relationship.

Now you may think that a bad relationship is worse than being single. From my experience I can say: being single really sucks, but being in an abusive relationship, really is just as bad, even worse, since being single is less life threatening.

Do not give up on your hopes and dreams, be yourself and love yourself first. It has no use to sit around and wait for a prince charming that will not come. Set your goals in life and live up to them. Find out how you can accomplish them, without a partner.

Forget all the dating sites and find out consider that the money you save on them, you might invest to treat yourself. This might be more worthy, than sitting around hoping for something that might not happen.

Do not sit around for you prince charming to come and safe you from the monster of singleness, just slay the beast yourself. Don't become dependable.

Or if there is no princess to save, maybe you should just kill the beast for your own self-confidence and make yourself useful in another way.