Phone Sex In Distant Relationships: Considering The Health Benefits / Implications

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The fact that phone sex is the order of the day for distant relationships; especially among youths is a serious concern. This is because despite the benefits, it does have some serious health concerns on both parties. In this article, we will address this

In this 21st century, nothing seems beyond the imagination or reach of man. Technology has made its impact in every facet of human endeavor; even is love affairs and relationships. These days, we have chairs specially designed for love making, toys and other gadgets too numerous to mention here.

In this era, the issue of sex has been so abuse and derogated that it seems not to have meaning anymore. Sex could be bought these days with nothing more than a 1 cent candy. This is not only happening in my neighborhood but everywhere in the world.

One form of innovation in the area of lovemaking is phone sex. Phone sex is becoming a craze all over the world; especially among youth. If you were to play a record of the phone sex of 20 youths, your ears will tinkle with so many lascivious words and thoughts that you would want to see a reverend for some prayers. Phone sex is when the actual act of love making is done over the phone or wireless; the person is not there physically but the act is been carried out with distance not been a barrier. That’s the power of technology. Some persons have even taken it up and are making good money from it.

But wait! Does phone sex have any health implications? Is phone sex good for your health; whether in the long or in the short run? This is what we will treat in this article. We will look at how phone sex affects your general wellbeing; especially as regard those who are involved in distant relationships or love affairs.

Health Issues Concerning Phone Sex

Phone sex is usually practiced between lovers as a result of distance being a barrier. I should say that it does have its advantages and disadvantages when it concerns your health.

Agreed, phone sex could be really fun and cool and serve a lot of good purposes. It has the possibility of creating that bond between the two persons involved; distance notwithstanding. It also has a really effect that comes from fulfillment. All this can give you that extra zest you need for the day; like some kind of tonic.

Phone sex also relieves strain; giving you that relaxing effect that is so hard to get these days with the crazy things happening all around us. It also takes your relationship to a higher level; bringing you both closer than never before. These advantages cannot be ignored when it comes to phone sex.

However, one cannot ignore the negative effect that it could also have on the couples especially health wise. For one, it could lead to an addiction that would be difficult to stop. The individual thus loses the taste for lovemaking with the partner or opposite sex and resort to self-stimulation. It could also result to wanton sex habit as the partner would want to carry out the real act after been psyched up with the phone sex. It could also lead to distrust from your partner who would believe; perhaps wrongly that you would want sexual gratification after the phone stuff as he / she is not available.

Before indulging in phone sex, you have to consider all the pros and cons; both to your health and relationship. Is it worth it? I leave the answer to you.

Is Phone Sex an Affair?

This is another main problem with phone sex. If a person is married and starts having phone sex with someone other than their spouse, yes that is an affair. When discovered, this can ruin marriages and really hurt a spouse.

Dictionaries define an affair as actual sexual intercourse in person. But phone sex can also be considered infidelity because you are cheating sexually with someone other than your spouse or girlfriend / boyfriend. Lying is also a form of infidelity and can certainly ruin any marriage or relationship. If caught having phone sex by your spouse, you might expect repercussions or a divorce. There is also the addiction problem as mentioned above; especially if a spouse is paying for phone sex that then becomes a real problem in any relationship.

When is Phone Sex Appropriate?

Phone sex is fine when you are young and do not have a significant other. Phone sex is nothing new; it has been going on since at least the 1960s or 1970s. Two people talking on the phone that cannot be together, engage in closeness that becomes phone sex. When single, there is nothing wrong with phone sex.

When couples are apart, business trips or for other reasons, phone sex keeps the couple connected in a sexual and emotional way and can actually keep the marriage active and loving.

Talking to your girlfriend or boyfriend and you cannot get together; phone sex is closeness and sexually and actually loving.

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21st Century Dangers

In the 1970s and 1980s, there was not a lot of danger with phone sex, but today, you can be recorded and used against you. You might find yourself talking to a predator or something worse. It is always important to know who you are talking with sexually, so that it cannot be used against you. With today’s technology, you just never know.

And with today’s video phones, everyone must be very careful about sending sexually explicit or nude photos while having phone sex. These can easily be copied and shared with friends and on the entire internet. You certainly do not want your phone sex conversations and nude photos posted all over the internet or even amongst your friends.

Conclusion

Phone is fine and healthy and can keep lovers and spouses closes even while apart. But the main danger is when you get addicted to it, pay for it and or you are having phone sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other.

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